I find that most of the today's youth have nothing important to do expect talking endlessly on cellphones, chating on computer for hours, watching every other released movie. adding to these is the most important job of loving. they have to love one or the other person. They tend to spend more time on not so important things in life. The result--- at the age of thirty they find it to difficult to face and solve even small problems cropping in their life. The husbands unable to divide the time and priorities between work and spouses and the females unable to adjust with their ego and inlaws. The culprit seems to be the concept of nuclear families where children grow independently not knowing the value of relationship.